“THERE IS A CRACK, A CRACK IN EVERYTHING, THAT’S HOW THE LIGHT GETS IN… ”

-LEONARD COHEN

So many, many couples love each other and long to STAY in their relationship but don’t know how. Their conflict seems bigger than their connection…

When your relationship gets uncomfortable, it’s so tempting to think that if you leave your partner, things will get better with a new person. But, you may also know that somehow, with the new partner, the same patterns of conflict show up again and again…

That’s why I encourage couples to LEAVE THEIR PATTERNS NOT THEIR PARTNERS. A pattern, by the way, is an unconscious habit that we play out repeatedly in our thinking and our behavior. A pattern is a sort of unconscious trance.

Examples of patterns:

  • Abandonment/Engulfment
  • Less than/Better than
  • I’m in/ I’m out
  • Explode/Implode
  • Overachiever/Underachiever

While I cannot provide you with specific results, I do offer you a sweet sanctuary, a place of accountability, and the possibility to have a relationship beyond your wildest dreams…

A 45-minute free interview is provided and a sample of my work. To schedule your interview, call 505-577-1444 or email: [email protected]


2503 Calle de Rincon Bonito

Santa Fe, New Mexico 87505

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Wednesday 5p-8:30p

(Evenings on Wednesdays)